I told Mr. Tantrum on Tuesday that I want a divorce. I don't love him, and he deserves someone to love him greatly and deeply, and that person is just not me.
This of course has made everyone I know turn absolutely bat shit crazy and no one is speaking to me. (Which has made my anxiety just lovely...it is the lose 10 pounds in 2 days diet!) My parents won't speak to me, and I can't be sure of who I can trust, because they too are talking with him....empathizing because the "Big Bitch Mrs. Tantrum" is ruining a life of 12 years, and it will harm the child!
Is it worth staying with someone you don't love, who makes you so unhappy about yourself, and has nothing in common with you, in an effort to "save the kid" or is it about being true to yourself and your child and showing them how to be happy and make a life that can be a good one for you and for them?